
Living in San Francisco often means living at a fast pace—intellectually, professionally, and emotionally. High standards, competitive environments, constant stimulation, and limited space to slow down can quietly intensify anxiety and obsessive thinking. Many people begin to notice that fear, doubt, or mental checking start shaping their decisions—what they say, where they go, how they work, and how much they trust themselves.
OCD and anxiety don’t always look disruptive on the surface. Many people in the Bay Area continue performing well at work, maintaining relationships, and meeting responsibilities—while internally managing constant mental loops, intrusive thoughts, or a sense that something is always “off.” Over time, that internal effort becomes exhausting. Life may still look full, but it feels increasingly constrained.
At Whatif Therapy, I provide Exposure and Response Prevention therapy for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and anxiety disorders to adults, children and teenagers in San Francisco and throughout California via secure telehealth. My work is focused on helping you step out of fear-driven patterns and regain flexibility, confidence, and choice—without needing to put your life on hold.
I work with individuals whose anxiety or OCD is interfering with their ability to feel present, grounded, or at ease—especially in high-pressure or performance-driven environments. This often includes people struggling with:
Many clients I work with are thoughtful, capable, and motivated—yet feel worn down by the constant mental effort required to manage fear.
Clients often seek ERP after insight-oriented or reassurance-based therapy hasn’t led to lasting change. They’re not looking to endlessly analyze anxiety—they want treatment that actually reduces its influence on daily life.
This work is structured, intentional, and grounded in evidence. Rather than trying to eliminate anxious thoughts, therapy focuses on changing how you respond to them—so fear no longer dictates your choices, routines, or sense of safety.
ERP therapy helps you practice responding differently to uncertainty, discomfort, and intrusive thoughts—without relying on avoidance or compulsions. Over time, this leads to meaningful shifts such as:
The goal isn’t to eliminate anxiety—it’s to stop organizing your life around it.
Many San Francisco clients choose telehealth because it fits demanding schedules, long workdays, and hybrid or remote work environments. Therapy can take place from home, your office, or wherever you have privacy—without adding commute stress.
Telehealth also allows therapy to integrate directly into real-world settings, so skills are practiced where OCD and anxiety actually show up.
If you’re looking for effective, evidence-based treatment for OCD, Panic Disorder, Social Anxiety, Health Anxiety, Agoraphobia, Specific Phobias, or Generalized Anxiety Disorder in San Francisco, ERP therapy offers a clear path forward.
You don’t have to keep managing fear in the background of your life.
ERP helps you take back control—one deliberate step at a time.
Take the first step towards a happier and healthier life. Contact us today to schedule a free 15 minute consult.

I’m a California therapist who specializes exclusively in evidence-based treatment for OCD and anxiety disorders. I provide structured, hands-on therapy and work actively and collaboratively to help you reduce unhelpful responses, face uncertainty, and make meaningful, lasting progress.
Many of the people I work with experience thoughts or images that feel disturbing, confusing, or difficult to say out loud. I’ve worked across multiple treatment settings and approach this material with steadiness, professionalism, and care. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s happening and move forward with a clear plan and consistent guidance.
Credentials, Experience and Affiliations
M.S.W., California State University, Long Beach
Emphasis: Integrated Health
ERP therapy is intentionally structured and time-limited. Treatment is designed around momentum — doing enough, often enough, to interrupt fear-driven patterns rather than dragging therapy out indefinitely.
Depending on severity, goals, and availability, clients typically begin ERP at:
Early sessions focus on assessment, education, and building a clear roadmap. As treatment progresses, sessions become increasingly focused on targeted exposures, response prevention, and applying skills in real-world situations — not just talking about symptoms.
ERP is active by design. Between sessions, you practice what we plan together, allowing therapy to work where OCD actually shows up: your thoughts, routines, relationships, and daily decisions.
Clients in San Francisco seek ERP for conditions including:
I work with individuals throughout San Francisco and nearby communities, including:
All services are provided via secure telehealth, allowing flexibility for busy schedules, hybrid work, and Bay Area commutes.
Clients in the Bay Area often value:
ERP therapy aligns well with San Francisco’s culture of growth, innovation, and evidence-based solutions — while addressing the emotional cost of constant performance and uncertainty.
If you’re ready to stop organizing your life around fear and start building confidence in uncertainty, I’d be glad to talk. You can schedule a free consultation to see whether Whatif Therapy is the right fit for you OCD or anxiety treatment in San Francisco, surrounding areas and across California.
Whatif Therapy
based in Lakewood, CA
Whatif Therapy | Matthew Baker, LCSW (CA #121926)
Evidence-based treatment for OCD, Anxiety, and PTSD.
Serving clients across California via secure telehealth.
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