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Treatment focuses on reducing avoidance, increasing tolerance, and helping you regain freedom in your day-to-day life. Specific phobias are not always related to actual danger but create real distress, avoidance, and physical anxiety responses. They can severely limit daily functioning, relationships, work, and travel—even when the trigger seems minor or uncommon. Phobias are not preferences or dislikes; they are involuntary fear responses that feel overwhelming and difficult to control without structured intervention.
Phobias are maintained by a simple cycle:
Trigger → Fear → Avoidance → Relief → Stronger Fear Next Time
The brain learns that avoiding the situation keeps you safe, which hard-wires the fear response even deeper. Avoidance provides temporary relief but reinforces the fear long-term.
Specific phobias can revolve around any stimulus, but the most common include:
You may be dealing with a phobia if:
Specific phobias are extremely common and can begin in childhood or adulthood. They often coexist with:
Avoidance
Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) Therapy, is an effective treatment that gradually and repeatedly exposes you to the feared stimulus until the fear response decreases.
Exposure-based treatment helps by:
Exposure methods may include:
Direct, real-life exposure (e.g., sitting in a car, looking at a spider, entering an elevator).
Practicing feared bodily sensations (e.g., dizziness, shortness of breath) to decrease fear of panic symptoms.
Using written or verbal exercises for situations that can’t be easily recreated (e.g., flying phobia, medical procedures).
Building a hierarchy of triggers from least to most distressing and working through them systematically.
Exposure is always planned, collaborative, and done at a pace designed to reduce avoidance—not overwhelm.
Licensed in California and available to clients in Los Angeles, Long Beach, Orange County, San Diego, San Francisco, and surrounding areas.
Whatif Therapy
based in Lakewood, CA
Whatif Therapy | Matthew Baker, LCSW (CA #121926)
ERP therapy for OCD and anxiety-related disorders.
Serving clients across California via secure telehealth.
Updated January 2026
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